Is It Advisable To Marry Your Wife Or Husband From Social Media?

This generation is the era of communicating online with friends,brothers,sisters or relatives where ever they maybe in the world as far as the internet is concerned through the help of social media,using social media networks like facebook,twitter,instagram,linkedin,google plus and so on.

But many people have also been using this very method of communicating for not only communicating but also using it to make money online by advertising to a whole lot of people their product and services which they render and in return they get to make their money but only when one of this people being advertised to gets to purchase from them.

Some people have also been able to use the social media through negative ways by stealing from others by making them fall for their lies.While some have also been able to use it for their own personal gains.Companies have also been able to use it in getting personal informations and extreme details concerning a person and also been able to use it for reasons best known to them.

So lets get to the questions that says is it really advisable to get a wife or a husband through social media?  Well to me, i would say it depends on everbody take on it because some will say its actually good while some will actually give you a big NO, it depends on everyone's perspective of how they see it.

Back to me, for me i will give it a big NO.I know many people would have gotten their wives or husbands from social media but that doesn't apply to you too that you must also get your wife or husband from social media.If you see a person jumping into a river, that doesn't mean you should also jump into it too, because you might not know if you
would be able to swim it.

Many people from different parts of life has been able experience their demise through their use of various social media networks,so be warned.

But really would you like to spend the rest of your life(forever) with someone you don't know how he/she behaves, talks,walks,what its like if he or she gets angry or gets being offended,if he or she gets to tell lies than they tell the truth,if he or she is a type that actually likes squandering money,always partying, if he or she is the caring type or a type that doesn't give a damn most especially when you are sick.They are so many questions to ask yourself before jumping into that marriage with that man or woman you've been communicating with long online.To me,i think that marriage wouldn't definitely last because there would always be something missing in your lives,thats frienship before marriage,you don't get to know him/her better before you got married.

Don't also ever think he or she has money that you can not let it go,my dear,nobody ever stops you from making money,you too can make money,never depend on anyone for anything because there will always be a time when he or she will actually fail you.

My advise will be, stick to friendship before getting married,it helps a lot better than getting a wife or your husband from social media,because with friendship,you will definitely gets to know all the qualities in him or her and if you see you actually don't like those qualities,you can actually settle for another.

You even gets to talk eyeballs to eyeballs,share mutual feelings,joke,play and laugh together, there's nothing much fun than that.There will always be a feeling when you always see him or her(whether its for good or for bad),its a must thing in life,you can't change it compared to when you only call or chat or even send sms online.Really.......can someone really fall in love through social media or gets being loved in return? Well i don't think so but this is what i think, never get married to someone who you don't completely know,always stick to friendship before marriage,then you might fall in love.

Never also let anyone anywhere to tell you what to do or maybe confusing you into getting married to a spouse you barely know few things about.

So it is advisable not to marry from social media,you might not even know if he or she has a wife or an husband and want to make you number two,you might never know.

Go out and find someone you love,not on social media.

But really whats your take on this?

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